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Today I am teaching about Psychic Protection. I want to share with you an experience of someone with whom I counselled recently on a spiritual level. I have the permission from this person to share this knowledge as I feel we can all learn from it. It relates to a simple kind gesture that resulted in a full blown psychic attack. This story should make you realise the importance of learning about psychic protection for ourselves but also bring home the importance of being mindful about own thoughts and what effect they not only have on us, but the effect they can have on the people we are directing them at.
For data protection reasons, I have substituted the original names with the following to keep them anonymous. I will therefore refer to the man as Mr B and the women as Ms L
Ms L came to me experiencing a feeling of a heavy energy being around her which was making her feel uncomfortable. She was quite a spiritual person and quickly realised that something was not quite right. She kept catching dark clouds forming above her head and dark energies lurking in the shadows. Ms L was not a depressive person and so felt that this energy was not something that she had generated herself. She was aware of the art of psychic protection but this had caught her out somewhat and she was finding it difficult to understand who would want to direct dark energies at her in the first place. She put up her own defences but the energy had already started to cling to her aura and she was finding it difficult to shake it off.
I asked her to think about what had happened to her over the past week or so, had she unintentionally upset someone for example. After long discussions, she admitted that two days previous she had sent a text to Mr B who was her ex-partner to invite him and his new Partner to a family get together. Ms L had moved on from the breakup of their relationship some 15 years earlier and felt it would be a lovely gesture to invite both Mr and Mrs B along, thinking that they could spend time with their children and grandchildren. Ms L also had step children and their mother had also been invited to this party. The relationship between Ms L and Mr L's ex partner was one of acceptance that families split up and move on and she was more than happy to come along.
There had been no response to the text and so not wishing Mr and Mrs B to miss out on this family time decided to ring her children to try and get his postal address to send them out a physical invite to the get together, Upon talking to one of her children she found out that Mr B had rang one of them to vent his anger about receiving the text from Ms L and she was advised by her sibling to forget the idea of inviting both Mr and Mrs B along.
It would appear that Mr B had still not moved on from the breakup of his first partnership and unknowingly to Ms L had got really angry about the text and started directing his anger, aggression and bitterness towards her. This is what was causing the dark uncomfortable energy that Ms L was experiencing. Once she realised this, she was then she was able put up the right kind of defence which was a protective bubble which she coated with black tourmaline. The black tourmaline would normally repel any more negative energy being directed at her back to it's source, However being a spiritual person, she set her intent that it would not be returned to Mr B, but that it would be dispersed as love energy into her surrounding space.
Learning that Mr B was the cause did not really help and in fact opened up other issues for Ms L. She then began feeling guilt for the pain she had obviously caused Mr B all those years ago. She was also concerned that Mr B was involving their children in issues that shouldn't really concern them and was putting them in an impossible position of being piggy in the middle. By the end of the night went to bed feeling very tearful, nauseous and with raging stomach pains.
We don't know but can only guess at the effect the text had on Mr B. In releasing so much negative emotion, some of it was bound to remain within his aura and if not released will cause him more issues somewhere down the line.
So what are the lessons that we need to learn here....
Firstly we need to be fully aware of how our actions no matter how well meaning can cause issues for others. Ms L acted with the best intentions by inviting her ex husband and his new wife to a family get together.
This invoked strong feelings within Mr B which led to a full blow psychic attack on Mrs L. This sort of attack is known as a Passive Psychic Attack but it's effects can be just the same as an Active Psychic Attack which is one which someone intentionally sends negative thought patterns towards someone else. From the symptoms discussed above, it would appear that Ms L took the brunt of the attack on her solar plexus.
The outcome: Ms L was advised to wear Black Tourmaline for the next month to protect herself from further attack. She was also advised to wear citrine and tiger eye to cleanse and re-balance her solar plexus. Ms L is going to work on her own issues of unreleased guilt which had been highlighted during this episode.
I felt that both Mr B and Ms L need to both lean the lessons of forgiveness. Ms L needs to learn to forgive herself and Mr B needs to learn forgiveness in others.